From confusion to comfort: how personalised care plans transform the daily lives of people with dementia
Dementia affects each person differently. No two individuals experience the same memory loss, behavioural changes, or emotional challenges. This is why a “one-size-fits-all” approach simply cannot meet the needs of people living with dementia. Personalised, individualised care plans have become an essential part of dementia care in Australia, helping to reduce confusion, improve comfort, and strengthen quality of life.
At Tarrays, we believe that every person living with dementia deserves care that is shaped around their unique identity, history, abilities, and preferences. Personalised dementia care goes beyond meeting basic needs — it ensures that every individual is seen, heard, and supported with dignity.
What is personalised dementia care?
Personalised dementia care focuses on understanding the individual behind the diagnosis. Instead of standard routines or generic activities, support is tailored to the person’s:
- Background and culture
- Interests and hobbies
- Emotional triggers and comfort strategies
- Level of cognitive function
- Daily routines and habits
- Family relationships
- Physical health and mobility needs
This approach transforms the way people with dementia experience their day. It helps reduce confusion, strengthens emotional stability, and supports independence for as long as possible.
Why personalisation matters in dementia care
Dementia often affects memory, reasoning, and communication, making the world feel unpredictable or overwhelming. Personalised care helps anchor individuals by offering:
- Familiarity
- Consistent routines
- Activities that feel meaningful
- Interactions based on empathy and understanding
These personalised elements reduce anxiety and help create a sense of safety and comfort, especially for those in the moderate or advanced stages of dementia.
1. Personal history shapes better care
Understanding a person’s life story is one of the most powerful ways to support someone with dementia. This includes learning about:
- Their career
- Their family roles
- Their achievements
- Their cultural background
- Their likes and dislikes
- Their special memories
This information helps carers create activities that spark joy or comfort. For instance, someone who loved gardening may benefit from planting sessions, while someone who enjoyed music might respond strongly to familiar songs.
These personalised touches help maintain identity, reduce distress, and promote emotional wellbeing.
2. Reducing confusion through familiar routines
Routine is crucial in dementia care. People with dementia often feel disoriented when their environment or schedule changes unexpectedly. Personalised care ensures routines follow the individual’s natural rhythm, such as:
- When they prefer to wake up
- When they feel most alert
- When they like to eat
- Their toileting patterns
- Their preferred bedtime
By honouring familiar habits, personalised care minimises confusion and supports a calmer daily experience.
3. Tailoring communication for individual needs
Communication difficulties can lead to frustration and anxiety. Personalised dementia care includes identifying the communication methods that work best for each individual, such as:
- Speaking slowly and simply
- Using gestures
- Using pictures or prompts
- Choosing familiar words or phrases
- Providing extra processing time
When communication becomes easier, individuals feel more respected, secure, and understood.
4. Activities that support cognitive and emotional health
People with dementia benefit from activities that are meaningful, not just entertaining. Personalised care plans ensure activities match:
- Cognitive ability
- Motor skills
- Interests
- Emotional needs
Examples include:
- Reminiscence therapy
- Simple household tasks
- Music therapy
- Art or craft
- Sensory stimulation
- Light exercise
These activities help maintain cognitive function, promote emotional balance, and create moments of joy and connection.
5. Behavioural support built on understanding
Challenging behaviours such as agitation, wandering, or resistance to care often stem from unmet needs. Personalised care plans identify triggers such as:
- Noise
- Temperature
- Crowded spaces
- Pain or discomfort
- Fatigue
- Emotional distress
By recognising patterns and responding empathetically, caregivers can prevent or reduce behaviours without reliance on medication.
6. Supporting families and strengthening relationships
Personalised dementia care includes working closely with families. Loved ones often hold key insights about routines, preferences, and life history. Collaborative care planning helps families feel confident and supported, strengthening trust in the care team.
Tarrays works alongside families to create care plans that honour their loved one’s identity and values, providing comfort and peace of mind.
Conclusion
Dementia may change how people think, communicate, and navigate the world — but it does not change who they are. Personalised dementia care is one of the most powerful ways to preserve dignity, independence, and emotional wellbeing.
At Tarrays, we are committed to creating care plans that reflect the unique life, personality, and needs of every individual. By moving from confusion to comfort, personalised dementia support ensures that people with dementia live with meaning, respect, and compassion every day.











